11 Ekim 2012 Perşembe

Marrige Proposal Do's and Don'ts

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Do you have marriage in your mind? After spending long time together you can sense that she has been expecting you to pop the big question. But you’re avoiding the situation simply because you can’t summon the courage to make the proposal to her. If you can identify yourself with the situation then you can do with some suggestions from us. This write-up deals with issues like how to make the marriage proposal and how to avoid the marriage proposal faux pas.
Marriage proposal is when you ask your partner to marry you and become betrothed. Different countries and cultures have set different rules for marriage proposals. But as is the convention the responsibility to ask for the girl’s hand falls on the man.
Earlier the man used to get into his knee to ask the girl to marry. Many girls would still prefer their boyfriends to go down on their knees to propose them. Hence, it is always a good way to ask her to marry you. However, many people are now going a great length to make their proposal heard and memorable for their partners. If you too are of great romantic type you can also make extensive planning to propose your girlfriend. However, you may keep the following dos and don’ts in mind to get your marriage proposal readily accepted.

Dos of a marriage proposal

Be yourself: Don’t pretend what you are not. Also be sincere. Girls can easily differentiate when you are not serious about the offer.

Check her interest: 

It is important to make your proposal on the right time. Before you propose her officially talk to her to get her opinion about marriage. You’d need to confirm if she is ready for the transition in life.

Surprise her: Make your proposal when she is least expecting it. Choose a spot or moment when you can make the big disclosure.

Select the ring: Selecting the right size engagement ring is important for marriage proposal. Take her size and also do some window shopping before making the purchase. Promise for the lifetime commitment in style.

Practice:
 It is not unusual to feel nervous on the big day. Hence, you may practice before mirror if needed to avoid embarrassment.

Choose right spot: 
Choose a spot where both of you will be comfortable. Also this will save you the embarrassment if you get tongue twisted.
 

Don’ts of a marriage proposal

Avoid public places:
 It is not a good idea to propose at public places or before her family. The event should take place in private between you and her. She must be given the opportunity to give her honest answer to your proposal.

Don’t propose early:
 Avoid proposing at the early stage of your relationship. Give yourself as well as her the time to decide importance of the relation.

Hiding engagement ring in food:
 It is not a good idea- firstly, because this is an old trick and has been used many times in soaps and films and next, there is a chance that she might swallow it unknowingly.

Don’t push her for answer:
 Don’t expect an immediate answer for your proposal. If she needs time allow her the time. Since it is the question of deciding to spend your entire life with someone allow her the time to think.

Keeping the marriage proposal short and sweet is always the best idea. If you are sincere with your efforts then she won’t be able to say ‘no’ to you.


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